How to Play Host or Hostess — Without the Stress!

Whether you're throwing a dinner party, planning a birthday bash, or having family over for the holidays, these simple tips will teach you how to play host or hostess without the unnecessary stress.

  • Start early. At least a few weeks ahead of time, start to think about the major details: the number of guests, the menu, and anything that you may need to rent. This will start to ease you into party planning mode and avoid any last-minute surprises.
  • Prepare ahead of time. Make as much of the food ahead of time and refrigerate or freeze it so that you don’t spend the entire day in the kitchen. This way, you’ll just have to reheat and add the finishing touches.
  • Create enough seating. Even if you don’t have a large dining room table to fit all of your guests, you still want to make sure that everyone has a place to sit. Borrow chairs from a neighbor or invest in floor cushions for a more casual affair.
  • Set the mood. Play fun music, clear out any unnecessary furniture to create more space for socializing, and plan a few games in case of any awkward lulls in conversation. These are tried-and-true tricks that will prevent your party from hitting a slump.

Dos and Don’ts of Hosting a Dinner Party [Rue Mag]
How to Host a Dinner Party so Everyone Enjoys It [Lettuce Eat Kale]
101 Party Dos & Don'ts [House Beautiful]
Entertaining [My Home Ideas]

Stress-Free Entertaining Tips

Opening your home to family and friends is one of life’s true joys, but unfortunately it’s often accompanied by a great deal of stress. If you’re tired of letting the pressure of entertaining get to you, rely on these tips that will have you entertaining like a pro in no time. Try them next time you host a gathering at home at The Marquis at Canyon Ridge.

Plan a potluck
Instead of making everything yourself, ask your guests to bring something. Often guests will offer anyway, so why not take them up on it?! If you’re concerned that the menu won’t be cohesive, offer them a suggestion or provide them with a recipe.

Don’t cook a full meal
Making a full dinner can take a lot of time, energy, and money. Why not have an appetizer party where each guest brings their favorite small plate? Or have a dessert party and make just a few of your best baked goods. I guarantee that your guests will not miss dinner one bit!

Plan ahead
If you are preparing a complete spread with appetizer, dinner, and dessert, prep as much as you can in advance. Check your recipes a week ahead of time, and compile a detailed shopping list of everything you need. Once you’ve completed your shopping trip, prepare everything that can be made in advance. That way you’ll significantly reduce your work the day of the party.

Ask for help
If you’re like a lot of hosts out there, you like the satisfaction of handling things yourself – until that satisfaction turns to stress. Make sure your spouse is on board to help you prep for the party or recruit a close friend or family member to arrive a few hours early to make sure the party goes off without a hitch.

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